When you started dating your current spouse... How long did it take to know they were the one?

When you started dating your current spouse... How long did it take to know they were the one?

I've been dating a girl for about 2.5 months. Im still unsure about her, we're taking things really slow. I can deffinetly see marriage as a possibility in the future, but unsure how I should feel at this point. I know that im not yet "In love" with her. That takes a long time with me.

It's been quite some time since i've been dating.

When you started dating your current spouse... How long did it take to know they were the one?girl myspace

I knew *before* we had even started dating. I just had a strong feeling that he was the one. There's nothing wrong with dating someone for months, even years, and not getting married. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just enjoy spending time with someone you care about and don't worry so much about whether she's "the one."

When you started dating your current spouse... How long did it take to know they were the one?myspace live myspace.com

He wasn't the one. He lied to me and fooled me to get me to marry him. I cannot honestly answer your question.
It took me about a year to figure it out for sure. I kinda had it in my head before that though, but had to make sure.

Don't ask how or why I knew, I just knew. It's hard to narrow down how I knew.

You'll just know when the time comes.
For me it was about 6 months before I believed the relationship was heading somewhere serious, and 1 year before I wanted to get married. 2.5 months is still considered a young relationship. You won't know for some time yet.
I have over 2,000 answers listed that I have kept public for any of you to read and see my views in things. Everyone that comes here knows I can be pretty sarcastic, and I tell it like "I SEE IT"....I don't believe in "soulmates" or crap like that either. That being said:

I have been with my man over three years now. We are getting married in a Traditional Roman Catholic Wedding next year (we share the same faith) and I met him leaving the gym I work at (Personal Trainer) and he was going inside. he held the door for me, our eyes locked and we have been together ever since. True story. Is it fate or something like that? Don't know. All I know is this, Our eyes locked over three years ago and we are marrying next year. Yeah US!!!
at first im not sure if he is the one but he is the first serious boyfriend i had. he courted me the old fashion way.. he visits me in the house.. flowers, roses and chocolates... its almost 22 years now since the day we meet. he is the father of my 3 children... marriage is still goin strong.
I don't believe in "the one". Sometimes the person you meet that seems like "the one" for you, this person does not feel the same way about you. That's usually the case. I think that the idea of "the one" suggests that somehow this person is meant for you and you are meant for them, as though God or someone else had preplanned it. As a strong atheist, I believe in no such thing.

This does not mean that I settle, of course. I am very picky and always aim high. The more we get to know each other the more I am able to find out how much about her I like or dislike. The more time we spend together, the better I am able to tell how compatible we seem together. We were bf/gf for 3 years before I popped the question.
With my husband, he knew that he loved me the first time we met. He asked me to marry him a month after we started dating, we were married two years later. Very happy here. I was the same...it was as though we were two old souls reunited...everyone is different though.
About 3 hours. We both knew we had found our soul mate before our first date was over. However, we still waited two years to get married. Been married now for over 15 yrs.
My husband and I have been together for a little over 4 years and married for 2 and half of those. We were email friends for several months before we met in person, but we knew we wanted to get married within several weeks of meeting in person. It just felt right once there was that physical presence.

But of course, each relationship is different. Some people take days, others take months or years. As long you're happy and make the choice that's right for you.