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i am really wanting to meet a man for a permanant relationship and i like to go to the local bar for a few drinks with friends but do not want to meet them there. i just broke up with a man after 2 1/2 yr relationship but went on like 4 dating sites online. i am always told how cute and attractive i am ...we start talking then finally meet and sometimes they do not even look like their pic..but i really am getting a complex we meet for dinner or lunch or coffee and i have only had at the most 2 dates. I just had this man same age as me 49 and he is a blast and gave me roses and called everyday took me to lunch had wonderful conversation. then took me just the other nite to a really nice place and had dinner...now no call. i just don't get it...what am i doing wrong and don't say that i am trying too hard sometimes yes but i am getting a real complex and depressed over it.

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I'm actually a real life online dating success story (yep, they're not just urban legends :) ). My fiance and I met through an online dating site, so success CAN happen. Now, it didn't happen overnight, so I also have lots of experience in the online dating world before I met him.

One of the keys to having success in the online dating world is to make sure you are on the right online dating site. Since you say you were on 4 different online dating sites, I'm going to guess you don't know what the right site for you means (don't worry, you're in the majority). You need to be on an online dating site geared towards what you're looking for. You know you want to meet a man for a long-term, permanent relationship. Ok, great. Now, you need to be on an online dating site geared towards attracting other people who are wanting long-term relationships. If you're just trying any old dating site, you're going to be forever frustrated because you're not meeting anyone you click with. No kidding! You may be on a site geared towards nsa sex, and not even realize it!

Here are a couple of sites I really like: This site is new and just came out. http://abe5.com/1kx They ask you questions up front, and then send potential dates to your inbox daily (they match by compatibility and passion). That's right, THEY do all the work of looking through profiles so you don't have to go blind trying to do it yourself! You get to give feedback to them (the site) on the people they're sending you. They constantly update what you're looking for until everyone they're sending you is exactly what you're looking for. I know several friends who are using this site and really liking it.

That site wasn't around when I met my fiance. We met here: http://abe5.com/1l0, another site that matches people based on what they're looking for. Meeting other people based on similar interests is great, because your common interests/goals/values are what really make a long-term relationship work. By using an online dating site, your pool of potential mates is just larger.

Lastly, relax. You know you're attractive, and a great catch. Remind yourself of that, and let others discover it for themselves! As women when we start to get depressed over it, the negative vibe starts to come out and two things happen. The loser guys feel it, and start coming out because sad women are vulnerable and easier targets. And two, the great guys want to be surrounded by positive people, not playing counselor to the sad person on what should be a fun date. So remind yourself you are sassy and sexy! Get yourself to an online dating site geared towards attracting the same people you're attracted to, and relax!

Hope some of this helps! Good luck!

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You haven't done anything wrong--it's him. He probably realized that he wasn't ready for a relationship.
On line dating is a problem. What is it that is missing is friends of yours can be a great influence to help you with this and do not be shy about it just ask and get of the on line business. Fishes are in the water not on line
Did you have sex with him? If yes, then you may be a casualty of a pump and dump. Most guys have two lists: 1. The list of women they will have sex with. 2. The list of women they would want a long-term relationship with. Guess which one is longer. If you are looking for a LTR, then you have to make sure you don't put out for at least a month. No guy just looking to notch the bedpost is going to wait that long. After a month, decide how YOU fell about the situation. Then maybe you talk about banging, etc. and if that gets you hot, then....???

Don't worry, if you are cute, then there are lots of guys that will ignore your annoying personality, your bad driving habits, your tendency to order expensive meals at restaurants, only eating a small part of the expensive meal, buying enough shoes for a centipede, and enough purses to put the Alligator back on the endangered species list.

Good luck.