Guys help! Casual dating sex..?

I was casually dating this guy (off and on for 3 months). Both of us have ended long relationships this year and not technically looking for "girlfriend/boyfriends".

We have fun together and the sex is great. He even tells me he doesn't want sex w anyone else because it's so great w me. Problem is-- he doesn't want to date me "exclusively". I don't want him as my bf --just yet, but certainly don't want him sleeping with other people.

Is there a middle ground between a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and casual dating? Or do I have to "share" him until we get there? Or should I just forget him?!

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why would want to share him if you want to keep him. Is your dateing goal to get married? If so . you spend the rest of your life with the one you cant live without. sounds like he can live without you.

So if your just dating and looking for your best match let him go but dont date him. see if he comes back and says I cant live without you.

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If he wants you exclusively .... then you should get the same in return

if he doesnt care .... then neither should you .... just have fun with it
THAT is PRETTY DANGEROUS. to not b married and to have interations with some guy. FORGET HIM!
Set your boundaries and if he cannot abide by that, tell him he's history.
Well, you can agree not to have sex with other people, but that doesn't mean that he can't date other women or do other things with them. You two will need to talk about it and what you think is crossing the line. Of course, if you're doing that much, why aren't you dating?? Sounds like you want to date him, but you're afraid.
You're both adults. Provided you're both taking steps to ensure safe sex and you're both on the same level in terms of what you want from this relationship, go with it. However, if it makes you uncomfortable to know he's sleeping with other women, you might want to move on. Nothing is worth risking your health.
If he's smart he will just lie to you and tell you he only wants to be with you
Honey, It's already started off on the wrong foot. Your being Friends with benefits and now that's all it will ever be. never never go to bed in till you know for sure that it's permanent. try to respect your sexuality more, your body is your temple
Well what do you think casual sex means. It means that all you do is have sex with anyone as long as it's casual and if you don't want a bf then it shouldn't bother you. But you already feel in love with him that's why your mad when he sees someone else. SO have a talk with him and see if it's time to move the relationship up to the next level adn go from tehre
Just forget about him If your not good enough to date than you shouldn't be good enough to go to bed with.You should have more respect for yourself than that!!Good luck!
You are going to have to share. No strings means just that and as much as he likes you, that means he is free to sleep with others. As long as you use protection, and don't get emotionally attached which is really hard to do if you're having sex, I would think it might work, especially if the sex is fab. But if you can't handle the heat... of him getting calls from other women when you're in his bed, just forget him.
You are both super emotional right now because of your other breakups. Fear of getting tied down or hurting the other person will cause one or both of you to hurt the other. It is called a rebound relationship for a reason. Accept what is, it will hurt, but it will also probably help you learn about what you want and don’t want now that your long-term relationship is over. However, since you seem to be “falling” at different speeds, you need to either backup to his level (highly unlikely because you probably feel like you are being rejected and will do anything to avoid that) or just take the pain now and move on. What you are going through is very common, but painful none the less. Go find some non-sexual friends and build bonds with them as well.
Why MUST you complicate things..........