I've been dating my boyfriend, who was my best friend before we started dating for a while! eve

great and would be perfect except for one thing...his baby mama! well me and him were trying this whole dating thing but it didnt work out...it was kind of complicated! i knew that'd he was still sleeping with ex..although no feelings were involved! they had been broken up for 1 year and she's dating and living with her girlfriend yeah she's bi! anyways when i broke things off the first time he went and slept with her and now shes pregnant, after that happened he realized how much he messed up and who he really wanted to be with! and now we're together, he loves me and i can tell he does..his daughter isnt going to be born until july! i know for a fact he does not want anything to do with his baby momma in that way..hes in love with me! but she's a *****...this is so hard for me. how do i cope with this? what do i do? should i stay or should i go? in my heart i know he's in love with me but its just hard when he's havin a child with someone else.

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leave him!

hes disrespectful and you dont need that!

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girl you have to let him go you deserve better than this one. He messed up real bad
If someones cheating on you, or sleeping with someone else and they say they still love you.

It is hard.

But It is wrong on their part.

I think he's just using you.

It isn't like he's the only guy in the world.

Talk to him about it.

Tell him how much you hate what he does.

and how you wish he could stop.

If he doesn't leave him.

Or if he says he does but you catch him cheating leave him.

its unfair to YOU
if u really love him then this wouldnt really b a prob.

but then again i kno where ur cuming from but if u kno that he loves u %26amp; not her then just deal with it. Unless she aborts the baby or sumthin u cant do n-e thing. Unless u leave but i think that will b harder 2 cope with
YOU have to be mature enough to handle the idea of "sharing" this guy with the X for the next 18 years. If you cant handle that, then it will never work. Its going to be tough and they will still be in contact-unless hes a dead beat dad-and there will be times when he may have to break plans or take care of his child, and you need to be secure enough to handle that. Its alot easier said then done too, and being that he has already left you once to go back to her, why wouldnt he do it again? Good Luck with this, and just remember that no matter what happens, he needs to be there for his child and you (or anybody for that matter)shouldnt stand in his way or discourage him from doing so!
Leave him to his self-induced hell. Believe me, that woman will be in your face for the entire marriage. As long as that kid is around, they will be playing football with it and you will see her regularly. You don't need this. Find a guy with no complications like this.
sweetheart, we hear this story everyday......dont put yourself in any situation you cant handle. Ok, he got a baby momma....and he still sleeping wit her??!!! But he love you and dont want her no more??!!! I dont get it. He's gettin ready to have a totally different life with another woman...is that the life you want for yourself??? I know you dont trust him....cuz what happens the next time ya'll get in an argument??? He gon ga have another baby???????? you have to do whats best for you. If you can handle sharing your personal relationship with someone else....then stay. But dont complain about it when it gets ruff cuz thats whats it gonna be. If he's having a baby, i say you should remove yourself and allow you to have the life you want and him to get it right his baby momma since he thought enough of her to sleep with her without protection.
hey dont feel down, i mean the first thing am gonna tell you is tjat the baby is innocent 100% okay. it will be hard to ignore the fact that your bf will father someone elses baby, but you are not the only one in this world who goes through phases like that you hear me! you love the guy and the guy loves you and you should be real happy for that...please dont make it hard on your self okay, you will somehow learn to live with that fact...i cant promise that things will be perfect, but i can tell you that it will be okay - ignore the ***** and love your guy as you are doing right as of today okay

take it easy girl, i know you are strong somehow. and this situation will only make you stronger rather than bring you down

tke care
WOW!....well if i were you I'd leave him just for what he did to you in the past....but if he really REALLY regrets about what he did to you and loves you and feels that he messed up BIG time....well just forgive him and forget her..
Apparently the fact that he's going to have a kid is never going to go away. Even if he does'nt "love" his ex anymore... they're always going to have that one thing in common. You can't let him abandon his duties as a father, no matter how much you too "love eachother". It's the right thing to do. As for you, If you do stay with him... i suggest that you take precautions and remember that guys can sometimes be *****.
i say it is really how you feel ..think about your future. i'm not sure how old you are, but if one day you get married to this guy, would you be willing to have a pre-made family? are you going to be able to take the stress of knowing that he has already cheated on you with someone and then knowing that he is going to have to stay in contact with this same person for the rest of his life for his child's sake? are you going to be jealous? do u trust him not to make that same mistake again? can you truly forgive him for the first time.? if you don't know, then you could always give it a try, and wait until the baby is born and see how you feel about it then. worst case scenario: you can't handle it and one day down the road you have to break up with him. but either way everything will work out how it is supposed to
If your relationship together is low maintenance. This means you both are growing in a positive way together.

No matter what you decide to do in life, there will always be situations that will arise. Question is, how strong are you and your love for this man.

If you choose to stay with him, and you love him, love his child too. Be the loving girlfriend and the loving (soon to be)stepmother. If you want to resent his child, I hope you choose to break up. No child wants or deserves to be mentaly abused by adults that do not know how to get along.
Did you take him back AFTER she said she was pregnant? Why did you take him back then if you weren't sure you could handle it?

When you start to call this woman nasty names, remember, she is going to be in his life for the next 18+ years. And it has NOTHING to do with you.

If you end up with this guy, then it would be best for you to try and be cordial to her. If you can't manage that, then don't have any interaction with her.

Don't be there when she drops off or picks up their child, don't say nasty things about her to your boyfriend or the kid; Just don't talk about her. You don't want to cause further strain.

If you don't think you can handle the fact that he's having a child with someone else, then leave now. It don't mean your a bad person. It's just very tough circumstances.
hes deserves a secound chance, stay and see how it goes, he messed up and loves you.