In the dating field.......?

You know there's an excellent books for women and how to be assertive and not to be a pushover and point out mistakes women make........

But I wish there was a book for women and dating, how women can show confidence and assertiveness without sending a non-verbal message that she's a skank, wants attention, conceited, and all that bad stuff but rather intentionally send a message that she's assertive and confident, knows what she wants, does not tolerate inappropriate behavior, without being so aggressive it scares guys away to the point where noone is interested in dating her. Makes sense? To also put out a message that she doesn't seek attention nor acceptance, she wants to date but not attract guys for the wrong reasons.

Suggestions?

In the dating field.......?famous myspace

Would'nt think this woman,will have problems.You are under the false impression,that men don't like this type woman.Any woman of quality,moral standards and principles,is highly sought after