Should I continue dating this guy?

I have been dating the same guy since November, and recently asked him when he was going to make me his girlfriend. He said "When I get my sh*t together so I can make it work well." I didn't push the issue any futher.

I have had to initiate and plan every date we have been on, and everytime we have hung out. I asked him why he never asks ME, and he said females are aggresive with him and he just does what everyone else says. Personally, I thought this was a really weak sounding comment and he sounded stupid.

So of course I continued to initiate our dates, and he has declined the last four times with lame excuses, so I just decided to stop asking.

Last night my best friend called and told me he was sitting across the restaurant that she was in, with his ex. I immediately texted him and just said "What are you up to?" and he never said anything back. This morning he texted me and said he fell asleep last night (Continued)

Should I continue dating this guy?kids myspace

That's not the kind of relationship you want where the man never takes initiative. Get out!

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Yes you should keep dating him. Its not like you have already made up your mind or anything.
He is a user, and if he was ur boyfriend, he'd probably cheat. Don't waste your time..and listen to what your friend told you..she is right. Why would she lie? Find someone who appreciates you..cuz obviousy he doesnt...sorry i cant spell for beans

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You can keep getting to know him but do not commit more than he is willing to give. Keep it Platonic. So that when he is ready to move on you will be there. I would give it a definite amount of time . Not forever.
if he can chill with his ex and still have you on a string, he has it made, you have to decide if you wanna be good enough when she's not around, or be good enough for someone else all the times!! he texts you all through the day, ok but does he pay you any mind when he's with her!!
i dont think you should continue dating this guy. He doesnt seem to be into serious relationships. He doesn't just want to be with 1 girl. This is probably why he doesnt take interest in making plans. He figures whoever asks him out first that's who he will go out with. He doesn't want to have to be the one doing all the work such as deciding who he wants to go out with. I think he is no good and you deserve better. No girl deserves that so i definitley think you should get out of that relationship soon before you fall for him and then things are really gonna get nasty. Good luck sweetie
I say back off. If he isnt being completely honest with you now and your not attached then how will he act when/if you do get together. If he has nothing to hide then he shouldn't be acting like there is something to hide.

I would start dating other people and let him come to you. You said you had to initiate all the dates, and that doesnt seem to me like it is fair.

You are right that you have no say in who he talks to or hangs out with, but if he wasnt worried that you would be upset then he would tell you. He just shouldnt be acting like he is doing something wrong.

You sould tell him that you dont think he is being honest and thats not the kind of relationship you want to be in. I think you would be happier with someone you could trust.

Good luck hun. %26lt;3
Do you want to face such incidents ina future? I believe we can enjoy the sweet side of people. But the question is ask in a relationship is whether you can accpet his cons.
No, I think that u should find someone else. It seems that he just wants to hangout with u.
He's not even trying. Why would you want to be in a one sided relationship? If he wanted to be with you, he should meet you halfway and nothing less. Kick him through the uprights and get someone who deserves and wants your attention!