Dating and Divorce???

After you and your spouse divorces on good terms -- realizing that you are better off as friends than husband and wife ...

1) How soon would you start dating again if you ...

a) had custody of your son?

b) did NOT have custody?

2) How soon would you like to see your ex start dating if he ...

a) had custody of your son?

b) did not have custody?

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Considering my ex started dating before we even separated i thought it was just fine for me to start dating 2 weeks later. Its really isnt any of your ex spouses business when you start dating again not matter what the circumstances are.

I personally only went out with guys when my ex had the kids so they wouldnt even be involved in it at all.

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I think the rule is a year, but you're the only one that can truly decide what is best for you, I'd honestly wait till the divorce was final if it's not already before you start dating someone else. If there is a child involved I wouldn't recommend bring the new person around your son/daughter for quite sometime. Like I said it really depends on you and how well the child is adjusting to the split. I wouldn't have the new woman stay the night for at least a year if the child lives with you. When the child visits I would spend time with the child without the new interest so that the child doesn't feel like you're trying to replace him/her. Children are very fragile when it comes to divorce in most cases, they aren't ready for someone new when you are, always put your child before anyone.
Instead of asking "when" you should start dating, I think it makes more sense to first ask "why". Before you start dating, make sure that you know what you are looking for, what you want in a new relationship, and what you are willing to do for it. Don't date out of loneliness, peer pressure, or other considerations. If you do, your dates probably will not work out given that you are distracted. So spend some time thinking about the qualities you want in women you date and what type of relationship you want with them. Once you are clear on this, dating should be much easier to manage.

Regarding dating and children, make sure that you have an understanding with your spouse about what is acceptable and what is not. Typically, the children should not be exposed to any new "partners" until a serious relationship has evolved. Exposing children to this prematurely can create problems and conflict with parents. That being said, be considerate of your children and only expose them to your dates if your relationship is serious enough to warrant it.

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I think if you have a child living with you after a divorce you should give your child a chance to adjust to the changes in his life. I would wait at least a couple of months before dating and spend that time with your kid at let him know that you will always be their for him when he needs you.
whta my opnion is wait for few months and take care of your child first

and start datewith a person who knows everything and who cares for a child