Dating someone with ADHD, Can someone help?

I am dating this guy, we have been seeing each other for about three years. We get along soooooo well in all aspects and have so much fun, but when it comes to serious stuff he changes his mind and gives me many contradicting messages within the same answer. I used to get upset because I thought he was playing games with me. He is 14 years older than me. I know nobody is perfect and I want to know what is going on. Is this the way adults with ADHD behave? he seems unstable. Do ADHD individuals make good "signigicant others." I feel I can't trust him. I feel I am dating a little kid that needs to mature. How much of what he says it's his ADHD's fault is true?

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Medication can help. Living with an untreated ADD or ADHD person can be extremely challenging. I would think twice about staying with this guy. If he gets the ADHD medicated it will make a tremendous difference in his life and in yours as well.

I fhe isn't willing to get it treated DUMP HIM.

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You shouldn't be going out with some one 14 years older than you anyway. Dear Lord just break up with him.
ok think about age people
Obviously you have internet access:

http://www.google.ca/search?hl=en%26amp;q=ADHD...

Look it up for yourself - nobody else here has seen his symptoms and therefore nobody else is qualified to understand what you have experienced with him.
HA. Firstly, take the blinders off.

He's fine with you every other moment, until you start talking serious stuff? And he says its ADHD??? You can't be serious. And on top of that, he's banging someone 14 years younger than him... Do you really think he'd honestly want to be serious with you? Cut your crazy loses and run.
Does he take medicine or behavior therapy for ADHD?

Check out WebMD.com and read about ADHD. There are so many symptoms they list.

Is your boyfriend letting his ADHD take control of his life? I mean is he blaming everything on ADHD and not trying to change? That's when it can be a problem.

Please be patient with him though with certain things - and tell him you notice when he tries in areas that are troubling for him [like misplacing things, being messy, forgetting things, getting angry easily, etc]

When trying to talk serious, sit him down and calmly talk - it probably is hard to do calmly with a person with ADHD who doesn't like to share - maybe he can't get his thoughts to make sense. Good luck
Well there are always meds to deal with most of the symptoms. I bet a lot of it is ADHD's fault. Btw to everyone who says 14 years is too much, my parents are 13 years apart and have been hapily married 17 years.