Question regarding dating?

well i am really in experience in the field of dating i feel like a total idiot under pressure and get my words mixed up also im not really good at holding on to conversation for example

You:how are you doing

me: great how about you

you:been doing fine

me: ......

thats almost as far as i can go any help on what to do during a date such as waht to talk about and this date is to the movies+dinner and any method on how to talk regularly /under pressure i am not sure if i lack confidence or it's just a habit =( but any help would be appreciated btw she's asian i'm asian she's smart i'm smart shes in volley ball i'm in tennis

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Just ask questions about her interests. Ask her how volleyball is going, classes, etc. People love to talk about themselves. Just fire away with those questions and you're bound to find some things that you two have in common.

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Wow... Is there really nothing you want to know about this girl? Start with the basics:

"How long have you been playing volley ball?"

"How'd you do in the last game?"

"Who's your favorite teacher?"

"What do your parents do?"

"What color underwear are you wearing?"

OK... Don't use that last one. And don't use a whole string of them, just have a question or two that you can use to start a conversation.

There are two rules about communication that have always worked for me.

Rule #1 - The person you are talking to is just a person. They are not some mystical magical creature from some far away land of breasts and legs.

Rule #2 - People generally like to talk about themselves. Let them, even lead them into it. You can learn a lot about them, and they will become more comfortable talking to you.
heres ur problem: youre seeing her as a potential girlfriend/wife.

try looking at her as one of ur buddies! like an ordinary girl friend that u can talk to normally. im sure this would work if u see her as a friend. but be more respectful. thats it
Roughly prepare some questions you want to ask her before meeting with her. You obviously know enough about her to work out something to say. Also, in order to calm your nerves before seeing her, keep concentrating on your character strengths and repeat them to yourself like a mantra, for example "I am a great tennis player". It will help to boost your confidence, and ensure that the conversation runs more smoothly.

Good luck!